So...if you think you know me in real life, give me a smile and a wink sometime (and if it turns out that you don't actually know me then at least you will be freaking out strangers or acquaintances and I will find that amusing), but please keep me relatively anonymous. Not so much for me, cuz lord knows how I need to learn to shut my trap, but more for my husband's privacy as he is a much more private person than I am, and I totally respect that. Pretty much I want to use this blog to vent, to deal with some emotions, to talk about whatever I want to talk about in an honest and open way, and I will find that hard to do if I know that I know you and that you might be reading what I am writing.
I also apologise for the language. I like to swear. I mean, I really, really like to fucking swear. Not every sentence, not 24/7, because that would be vulgar. Swearing is sort of like spice...and I like spicy food.
One last note...as an American in New Zealand, I am willing to use "favourite" and "colour" but it will be a cold day in hell before I use "yoghurt". Spell checker be damned.