I was enlightened the other day by a well wisher who knows a bit of my history.
Apparently those early miscarriages I had were because of the sex of the child in the womb. As in I am never meant to have the opposite sex to the current resident. Based on anecdotal fact (a step daughter had two boys for 6 pregnancies, so clearly those 4 that failed must have been girls).
I am losing my pregnancy game already, because what do you say to that? Challenge accepted? What about hermaphrodites? Are you insane?? I think my response was "...oh..."